Online Counseling Therapy for Anxiety and Depression

Online Counseling is a very effective and also very convenient option for many people. Convenience is one of the main factors – people are often too busy to take the time to drive to and from a therapist’s office. It is much more time-efficient to simply turn to your computer and make that Skype video call at the scheduled time. Also, many people, such as mothers with young children and the disabled or elderly, find it hard to make the special arrangements necessary to leave home to travel to their therapist’s office. There is also the issue of availability. People living in the country or isolated communities, those living abroad in non-English speaking countries, and even those living in cities such as New York or LA where the cost of counseling therapy is unaffordable for many people. Online Counseling Therapy is also very convenient for those who are suffering from agoraphobia and social anxiety and thus find it extremely challenging to leave the security of their home.

Is Online Counseling Effective? There have been several studies that show that online counseling can be as effective as in-person counseling, especially for non-clinical neuroses such as anxiety, panic attacks and depression. The Online Therapy option is becoming more accepted by the established mental health communities and recently was recommended to be made available on the NHS. Of course, effectiveness depends very much on the kind of psychotherapy being offered. The online format works best for cognitive-based forms of psychotherapy such as CBT and Mindfulness Therapy. Actually, it has been my experience that the online format using Skype video actually enhances the therapeutic process. People enjoy the process and definitely feel less intimidated and more at ease, especially since they can organize their sessions from the comfort of their own home.

As a therapist, I am very excited at anything that gives the client more options and choices in getting the help that they need for managing their anxiety, depression or stress. The Online Counseling option certainly offers a huge range of choices – especially as it is not geographically limited. Living in New York a client can seek help from a therapist in Colorado, California or even abroad. Clients may also live in foreign countries and find it difficult to find a therapist who speaks English or who shares the same culture. Many clients are also very particular in the kind of psychotherapy counseling that they want and that may not be available locally. For example, many people know that Boulder is a world-class center for Buddhist Psychotherapy, which may not be available in Wisconsin!

Dead People in Dreams and The Meaning of Death

After continuing Carl Jung’s research in the dangerous unknown region of the human psyche through dream interpretation, I discovered the roots of human absurdity. I saw that the biggest part of our brain belongs to our anti-conscience, which is our wild, violent, and immoral primitive conscience.

I also discovered the unconscious sanctity, which Jung could not perceive. At the same time, I saw that I was totally absurd. I had to accept obeying the unconscious mind after recognizing my own absurdity. I was neurotic, and I would certainly become schizophrenic like my father if I didn’t get help through psychotherapy for my issues. I had this vision in 1989, when I was 28 years old.

I had to abandon all my plans. This is was a very difficult decision.

I had an extraordinary literary talent, and many other artistic talents. I was very intelligent and attractive. I always felt that I was born to be a queen. When I was a child I lived like a princess because my parents were very rich.

I knew that I could become a famous literary writer and live with the man of my choosing. However, after seeing that I was basically absurd, thanks to dream therapy, I understood that I had to change my behavior.

I had the personality of a dictator. I had to learn how to be humble, and how to respect the feelings of those who depended on me.

I also had to respect my husband and remain faithful to the marriage. This last necessity was the worst one of all, because I fell in love with a married man, while I was married. I would have crossed the boundaries and sexually betray my husband if I did not obey the unconscious guidance.

I obeyed the saintly guidance of the unconscious mind, recognizing its divine origin. My obedience represents the obedience of Satan to God.

I was satanic because I had no feelings. I was cruel and indifferent to human pain. In other words, my satanic anti-conscience had almost completely destroyed my human conscience. I was practically already schizophrenic like my father.

My obedience, even though I was basically evil, was a true miracle. It represents the end of craziness and terror on Earth. If even a monster like me could recognize the necessity of passing through psychotherapy, this means that the entire humanity will agree on obeying the divine unconscious guidance.

My psychotherapy also worked as a process of spiritual purification. My journey towards sound mental health was also a journey towards sanctity. I had to imitate the example of all the saints of the human history.

Since I became God’s loyal server, I could have access to the hidden knowledge of the unconscious mind. This was how I learned the meaning of life and the meaning of death.

Nobody believes that we can learn what will happen after our death before dying. However, the unconscious mind that produces our dreams is the voice of divine providence. We can learn the meaning of death through dream translation.

The information we have in dreams can be completely trusted. We only have to learn the meaning of the symbolic dream language according to the method discovered by Carl Jung in order to understand the unconscious messages. This is a very simple task today since I simplified Jung’s method of dream interpretation.

The meaning of death is related to our absurdity and to our attitude. We die when we cannot fight against the evilness of our anti-conscience, or against the evilness of the world. We lose those we love when we make, or when we intend to make grave sins.

People who die very young would lose their minds if they would continue to live. They have to die while the goodness contained in their human conscience is still alive.

Other people have to live and pass through many bitter deceptions in life. Everyone depends on their capacity to transform their wild nature into human nature with time.

Dreams give us information about dead people, explaining the reason why they had to die. This is very serious information that works like a consolation for those who have lost loved ones.

If you have lost someone, you will have many explanations that will help you accept God’s will. Sometimes death is a blessing for those who die, even though it is very bitter for those who remain on Earth.

A suicide attempt is always a very big mistake. Those who commit suicide are punished with suffering. Only God knows when someone must leave this world.

  • I lost many young relatives and friends since 1976, when I was 15-years-old and had suffered a tragic car accident. I lost my dearest friend Marina, who was only 22-years-old and was next to me in the car. Her death was the first one of a series of deaths that deeply marked my life.
  • My dearest friend Arnold was the next one. He committed suicide when he was 26-years-old. His death marked my life even more. After him, I lost a dearest friend, who died from leukemia when she was 27-years-old. She was married and had two children. My mother was her daughter’s godmother.
  • In 1984, I lost my 18-years-old cousin Efi. She died in a train accident when I was pregnant. My dearest mother-in-law died three days after Efi had died. Both deaths in the same week while I was pregnant showed me that I had to be very careful because I could lose my child. I saw in my dreams explanations for the reason of the death of all my close relatives and friends.

My list of people who were close to me but died when they were still young is very long. Their destiny helped me understand that I had to obey God’s directions through the unconscious mind. I was ignorant, and there were many dangers in life.

Dead people in dreams can also have a symbolic meaning. Many times they represent parts of our own personality. Everything depends on the dream’s context.

In case you have doubts, or you need urgent support, you can submit your dreams for professional dream translation. I will immediately translate your dreams for you and provide you with psychotherapy. You can also learn how to translate the meaning of your dreams yourself and have this knowledge forever enlightening you.

Dealing With the Dysthymic Depressed

Depression is one of the world’s worst illnesses and it affects millions of people around the globe. There are different types of depression and each requires medical attention.

Dysthymia pronounced dis-thi-me-a is a mood disorder characterized by chronic mildly depressed or irritable moods, often accompanied by other symptoms such as eating and sleeping disturbances, fatigue, and poor self-esteem. It is also called a dysthymia disorder.

According to Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) an American Psychiatric Association publication which describes the standard criteria for different types of psychiatric disorders.

Their symptoms do not occur for more than two months at a time. This type of depression is persistent but exhibits less severe depressive symptoms than Major Depression.

Dysthymia is a kind of depression that affects a person who is in a near constant depressed mood for at least two years and accompanied by an increased or decreased appetite. Many depressions are the result of unfulfilled desires in life, of crippling fears that holds a person back from accomplishing anything worthwhile in life.

In this particular type of depression, dysthymia makes the despondent person either have difficulty sleeping, or their sleep patterns are increased. When the person sleeps too much they become fatigued, sluggish and suffer from low energy.

When a person suffers from dysthymia, procrastination sets in when it comes to daily tasks being completed, if started at all. They will have difficulty concentrating on what they are doing. Making decisions on a daily basis becomes a tiresome and frustrating chore and as a result nothing gets completed because they cannot make up their minds.

They may feel that their life is hopeless and useless because their self-esteem is at an all time low. Guilt may set in because of their inability to function, and because tasks didn’t get done.

The consequences of dysthymia can be grave if left untreated and can include severe functional impairment, increased morbidity from physical disease, and increased risk of suicide.

Rarely do we live our lives alone, taking care of our mental health will affect not just us, but our family and friends. Mental health and physical health go hand in hand, strive for a healthy and balanced diet in your life and keeping a healthy weight goes a long way to helping your depression but out. When it comes to mental health, living life to its fullest potential should be our number one goal.

If you or a loved one is exhibiting symptoms such as these, encourage them to seek medical attention as soon as possible.

Depression: The Magic Within

I found depression to be one of the most sensitive sources of power that can expose the magic within us. As the word explains by definition, depress indicates an action of depressing something, to press or push down. By pressing down on, in other words closing off, the ‘button of our emotional reactive perception, we allow the ‘genie’ in us to emerge, releasing the magic that has been bottled up. Let me explain how I did it.

Many years ago, when I found myself in the grip of a dismal attitude, I intentionally released my ‘genie,’ took the plunge sort to speak. I experimented with my ability to hold back my spontaneous emotional reactions towards the things that were going on in my life. I was determined to learn something from having taken myself to this point of depression. Even though I felt despair was a devastating force, a terrible monster that soon sat on the ruling throne, I also understood its possible power to improve my life. I set out to find the silver lining in this gray cloud.

Accepting that I could do something, with the conviction of a child’s mind, I was able to bring about the results I was after. In order to conquer the melancholy that was engulfing me, I mustered up a strong intention. I wanted happiness not discouragement.

I learned to subdue my despair and managed to make it my ally. I was able to overturn the outcome of my hopelessness and use depression as a tool to get into a better state of mental health. When I finally learned just how to go about it, my actions empowered me. The trick resided in my wanting to take action to change the course of some very malicious habits I had acquired along the way. But before I tell you how I put on the armor of courage I want to tell you four principles you may have already known but forgotten.

The key is in the knowing. Remember how intrigued you once were in childhood by magicians? I surely was. Somehow I knew then, that I too could accomplish feats of magic. I just knew it. As it happened, I learned that the secret was in the knowing.

Go beyond Belief. Believing that you can do something simply keeps you in the same state of mind; never really accomplishing the full force of the change. In other words, it just keeps you thinking about the same emotion or in the same thought pattern.

It takes action to make changes. Watching a magician will never make you one. Action triggers the mechanics of an accomplishment.

Practice makes perfect. As a matter of fact, we all can do things that once might have seemed impossible, or considered a magical feat. The key now is in practicing. I had to learn to get past the belief that I thought I could do the trick; I had to learn to do it. Here is an example of what I’m talking about. 

So, back to conquering and reversing depression, it can be one of the most invigorating accomplishments you have ever challenged yourself with. The proof is in the pudding, as the sawing goes; it applies here too. This magic is closer to you than your skin. Now just bring it out into the light. You are now on stage; perform your magic!

Here are the six easy steps I took. You will soon be on your way to making your life a magical performance, from the shadows of depression into the lights of your new adventure.

Know you are the force that has brought you to the place where you are now. You do not have to know how you got here or why you did it, just accept that your thoughts, your words and your actions have brought you to where you are at this moment. Things will change.
Know with all of your understanding that the responsibility for a change lies within you. Own it.
Move yourself now to an attitude of acceptance without guilt. You accept your depressed condition as the springboard into your next stage of your life. This position will empower you and reverse the outcome of your previous discomfort.
Use the depressed state of being as a tool to action.
Know that you will never want to find yourself in that same state of depression again. You will always be moving forward, like climbing up the steps to your next stage of performance.
Begin to act the part of a magician. Perform your magic!

Hidden Depression Symptoms

Several studies performed on patients with chronic health conditions have revealed a significant prevalence of clinical depression in most of them. In most of these studies, about a quarter of the chronically ill patients personally admitted to have experienced various depression symptoms subsequent to the onset of their illness.

An illness is termed chronic when it either keeps recurring or persisting for a long time, mostly due to lack of reliable treatment technique. Some of these ‘untreatable’ medical conditions can last for durations that range from a few months to a lifetime. Such illnesses include high blood pressure, HIV/Aids, heart conditions, cancer, chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS), arthritis, epilepsy, kidney disease, diabetes and multiple sclerosis.

Chronic illness complications and symptoms management is mostly done through medication, physiotherapy or exercise, restricted diet among other techniques. Depending on the severity of the symptoms, the majority of chronic illnesses patients complain about similar complications that revolve around their social, psychological and physical wellbeing.

Psychological problems such as depression often stem from the incessant physical pain, social isolation and neglect, emotional anguish, false beliefs about the illness, symptom overwhelm, diminished physical capabilities and energy, medication side effects among other factors. Apart from that, depressive illnesses can be caused directly by illnesses and medications which affect the brain, the central nervous system or endocrine system.

Ailments such as multiple sclerosis, chronic fatigue syndrome, Parkinson’s disease and epilepsy have direct biological effects that alter the structure and functionality of the neurological and endocrine systems. These changes frequently contribute towards the development of depression.

Clinical depression is a serious medical condition whose symptoms include pervasively low mood, motivation and energy levels, feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness, irritability, tearfulness, mysterious bodily aches and pains, sleeping problems and appetite changes. Other important symptoms of depression include social withdrawal, reduced mental abilities and lack of interest in seeking rewarding or pleasurable activities.

Unfortunately, most of these chronically ill patients rarely receive treatment nor tested for depression as should be the case. Possible reasons for this anomaly include a lack of awareness about depression and its symptoms or the mistaken assumption that the experienced depression symptoms are actually part of the chronic illness.

Untreated depression considerably weighs down on the effectiveness of any chronic ailment management method. Depression sufferers who also have an underlying chronic health problem respond very poorly to treatment for both ailments. However both physical and mental health specialists agree that proper psychological health is essential for a quick and problem free recovery process of most illnesses let alone chronic ones. Therefore, as part of their recovery strategy, such individuals should ensure that they undergo diagnosis and treatment for depression as a way of enhancing their healing process as well as improving their health overall status.

Stress Management and Depression

Stress Based Depression has become one of the major health problems in recent years. With the advent of technology, such as the internet, email, faxes and wireless devices, we are being forced to work harder than ever before, to be on call longer, while at the same time, to take less vacation and personal time. Catastrophic world events have only exacerbated this, spurning a record number of new cases of depression. In 2001, the National Book Award Winner in the category of Non Fiction — and a major bestseller — was a book about depression.

Unfortunately, it is only predicted to get worse. In 2002, almost 20 million Americans have been diagnosed with some form of clinical depression. The World Health Organization predicts that by the year 2020, five of the ten leading medical problems worldwide will be stress related.

Most mental health professionals over the years have seen depression purely as a state of mind. In the last four decades, research has indicated that there are many forces at play that ultimately lead to depression.

Simultaneously, the use of nutritional products and herbal preparations by the general public is one of the fastest growing segments in consumer spending and in health care. In 1993, Dr. David Eisenberg, a professor at Harvard University, published the first of two important studies showing that one in three Americans had used some form of alternative medicine.

Recent medical studies have indicated that various non-invasive approaches have the ability to bring short-term, and, in many cases, permanent relief from this debilitating emotional disorder. Research in recent years has also shown that depression is seldom isolated. It is generally experienced with other symptoms that might include headache, sub-clinical nutritional deficiencies, digestive problems, insomnia, and many others. These are all conditions that can be positively influenced by nutrition, herbs, amino acid supplementation, hands-on healing, specialized counseling and coaching systems, and other approaches either alone or, when necessary, in combination with medication.

Each depressed individual will have a unique history of dysfunctional relationships, traumatic childhood, stress, financial hardships, insomnia and sleep disorders, unresolved grief, genetic predisposition, aging, serious physical illness, or family environment. Individually or in combination, some or all of these factors may initiate a downward spiraling cycle that results in depression. Herbal based flower remedies help to heal depression on a vibrational/energetic level. These homeopathically prepared plant essences support the depressed individual in recognizing and addressing issues such as personal growth, self observation, forgiving, getting in touch with repressed feelings, expressing gratitude, effective communication, ending procrastination, making choices instead of excuses, ending self isolation, impatience, hopelessness, a sense of impending doom, and despondency. Of all the various flower remedies available the Bach Fower Remedies are the ones most commonly used.

Major Depression Is Highly Treatable

What is major or clinical depression?

Major depressive disorder (MDD) is a condition characterized by signs and symptoms that interfere with the ability to work, sleep, eat, and enjoy once pleasurable activities. Depression is common and often goes undiagnosed, because, the onset of the first episode of major depression may not be obvious if it is gradual or mild.

According to the DSM-IV — a manual used to diagnose mental health conditions. For a major depressive episode a person must have experienced at least five of the nine symptoms below for the same two weeks or more, for most of the time almost every day, and this is a change from his/her prior level of functioning. One of the symptoms must be either (1) depressed mood, or (2) loss of interest.

1. Depressed mood. For children and adolescents, this may be irritable mood.

2. A significantly reduced level of interest or pleasure in most or all activities.

3. A considerable loss or gain of weight (e.g., 5% or more change of weight in a month when not dieting). This may also be an increase or decrease in appetite. For children, they may not gain an expected amount of weight.

4. Difficulty falling or staying asleep (insomnia) or sleeping more than usual (hypersomnia).

5. Behavior that is agitated or slowed down. Others should be able to observe this.

6. Feeling fatigued, or diminished energy.

7. Thoughts of worthlessness or extreme guilt (not about being ill).

8. Ability to think, concentrate, or make decisions is reduced.

9. Frequent thoughts of death or suicide (with or without a specific plan), or attempt of suicide.

To be considered major depression:

  • Your symptoms aren’t due to a mixed episode – simultaneous mania and depression that can occur in bipolar disorder.
  • Symptoms must be severe enough to cause noticeable problems in day-to-day activities, such as work, school, social activities or relationships with others.
  • Symptoms are not due to the direct effects of something else, such as drug abuse, taking a medication or having a medical condition such as hypothyroidism.
  • Symptoms are not caused by grieving, such as temporary sadness after the loss of a loved one.

Treatment

Although major depression is a serious mental disorder that profoundly affects an individual’s quality of life. It is highly treatable. Many types of treatment are available. Medications and psychotherapy are very effective for most people. Some studies have shown that antidepressant drug therapy combined with psychotherapy has better results than either therapy alone.

Medications

Medications include:

  • Selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitors (SSRIs)
  • Serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs)
  • Norepinephrine and dopamine reuptake inhibitors (NDRIs)
  • Atypical antidepressants
  • Tricyclic antidepressants
  • Monoamine oxidase inhibitors

Psychotherapy

There are several types of psychotherapy that have been shown to be effective for depression including cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and interpersonal therapy (IPT).

  • Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) helps to identify negative beliefs and behaviors and replace them with healthy, positive ones.
  • Interpersonal therapy (IPT) focuses on the interpersonal context and on building interpersonal skills.

Stop Worrying About Others And Start Doing For Yourself

Do you spend a good deal of your time and energy worrying about others? Maybe you worry about your children: Are they doing well in school? Are they hanging out with the right group of friends? Are they on track with their lives and making wise choices about their futures? Maybe you worry about your parents. How’s their health? How long will they be able to continue to care for themselves? Perhaps you have people in your life who are close to you and continually in crisis. You care about them. You listen to their personal struggles. You invest yourself in their lives.

Truth is, we’re only ever really in control of ourselves. No matter how much we’d like to think we are able to control others and encourage them to healthier places, ultimately their journey is their journey. Ours is ours. So, if you find yourself spending MOST, if not ALL of your time worrying about others, trying to influence their choices, investing energy into solving their problems, then you’re very likely not doing much by way of investing in yourself.

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As a personal trainer and life/balance coach, I see a lot of this. Worrying about others is a common form of self-denial. It’s easier to see the mistakes other people are making than to turn the focus inward. It’s easier to put energy into worrying about others because it gives us an excuse not to DO something about ourselves. The frustration we experience when others repeat mistakes and ignore our advice is often just masking the depression we feel over our own neglect. STOP THE CYCLE!

Reset Your Mind

We reboot computers all the time when they freeze up on us. Learning to reset your mind is a similar technique. When you find your mind turning to worry, STOP and reset.

  • Refocus your thoughts on YOU.
  • Breathe deeply.
  • Center yourself on your own life.
  • Be present in your journey.
  • See yourself clearly.
  • Invest in your emotional and physical wellbeing.

It’s a gift you give to yourself and your loved ones.

Reorganize Your Priorities

Sit down and make a list of the things important to you. Where do you fall? Are you even on your list? Reorganize and reprioritize. Your health and your wellbeing should be a top priority.

  • We all want to be happy.
  • We all want to achieve success.
  • The fact is, healthier people are happier people.
  • Healthier people are more productive.

Change is rarely easy and yet seldom as difficult as we fear it will be.

Reclaim Your Health

Reclaiming your health doesn’t require joining a gym, making a major equipment purchase, or signing up for a popular weight loss program. Although all of these things may be helpful, they are unnecessary. Simply learning to balance and portion your nutritional intake will make a huge improvement. Try one of the many free online nutritional logs. I personally like FitDay.com.

  • Track your nutritional intake and try to achieve 40% of your calories from complex carbohydrates, 30% from lean proteins, and 30% from healthy fats.
  • Eat smaller meals every 3-4 hours.
  • Schedule daily exercise, both aerobic and strength training.

These simple steps WILL make a difference. You CAN reclaim your health. What are you waiting for?

Trust the Process

Perhaps one of the most challenging aspects of effecting a life change is the ability to trust in the process. The change I’m suggesting in this article is not some fad or quick fix. It’s a life change and that means it’s a process; one that occurs through dedication and over time. Old habits are replaced with new, healthier habits. New habits begin to feel less awkward as time passes. Time passes and a wonderful, life changing process occurs. Trust me.

How To Get Help For Depression With Natural Method

Do you know you can get help for depression even if it is mild and doesn’t interfere with daily, normal functioning? It’s true. If this describes your current experience with this disorder you may want to try some natural methods which are readily available, safe and easy to use. In many cases, the effectiveness of many of these approaches can be equal to or better than antidepressant drugs.

Start by making some of these simple changes to your lifestyle.

Get physically active

Regular physical activity is known to work as a natural antidepressant. Compared to a month’s supply of Lexipro which costs a little over $100, exercise is free and a lot more fun.

You can walk, run, dance, bike or swim your way to mental health. The endorphins released in your brain during physical activity increases your levels of serotonin, a neurotransmitter responsible for lifting mood. Serotonin can also distract you away from negative thinking, shield you from stress, and build your self-esteem.

For best results, most medical experts recommend at least forty-five minutes of brisk exercise, five days per week.

Practice daily relaxation

At least once a day, try to set some time aside to relax. You can begin with simple deep breathing exercises. If you find you get good results with this technique you can use it to ease into daily meditation. Then if you really want to step things up, regular yoga practice is a great way to balance mind and body.

Add more cold-water fish to your diet

Studies by the National Institutes for Health show that the omega3 fatty acids present in oil-rich, cold-water fish, such as salmon, sardines, mackerel and herring are also a natural stimulant of serotonin production. As such, researchers believe eating more omega3-rich fish provides natural help for depression, as well as, other psychological disturbances.

Of course, many people worry about mercury and other toxins showing up in many of these fish sources. If you’re not comfortable with eating fish for this reason, you can always get a healthy dose of omega3s with a couple of tablespoons of ground flaxseed added to a salad, soup or bowl of cereal every day.

Maintain social relationships and activities

It is well-known that depression can increase feelings of loneliness and isolation. This is why it is so important to spend time with family and friends. Increasing feelings of being connected to the world can come from simple things such as interacting with a pet, volunteering in your community and spending time in nature.

Stay away from substances that produce depressant effects

You may think having a cocktail or two makes you feel better, but in truth, can have a depressant effect. Drugs such as antihistamines and sedatives also have a negative effect on depression.

Caffeine is also a known culprit for interfering with mood and making symptoms of depression worse. And if one of your symptoms is insomnia, caffeine can make it much worse.

Because of its mood-altering effects, nicotine also falls into this depressant substances category. The risk of depression in smokers is significantly higher than that of people who don’t smoke.

These natural methods are inexpensive and easy to take advantage of. That being said, however, if your symptoms are at a level that makes it difficult for you to get through your normal day, you should speak with your doctor as soon as possible to determine if there is an underlying medical issue which needs to be immediately addressed.

Even if you’re diagnosed with a severe degree of clinical depression and require pharmaceutical help for depression you can still add these lifestyle adjustments to your daily routine to boost relief from your symptoms.